The perfect holiday celebration often eludes us. Here’s how we can celebrate a REAL Christmas.
On Today’s Episode
Rhythm of Life – I Know What I Think I Saw
Tune-Up Tip – How to Celebrate without packing on the pounds
Random Riffs – My Most Annoying Holiday Songs
Feature – I’m Not Having A Hallmark Christmas
Rhythm of Life – I Know What I Think I Saw
When I was a kid I REALLY wanted to see Santa Claus. My sister and I stayed up and believed we saw him. Now we all know I didn’t really see Santa. But I was convinced of the truth of what I saw.
How often do we do that every day? We see what we believe we see, and know what we believe we know, simply because we believe it to be true. It may not be true at all.
We sometimes see things about ourselves that are negative. Or take others’ actions personally. We can also “see” unrealistically positive things. A classic example of this is shown in a study published in the Journal of Applied Psychology in 2006. It states that most drivers rated themselves superior to both their peers and the average driver on 18 components of driving skill.
How do we know when our vision is clouded? In times like that it helps to speak out loud what we absolutely know to be true.
Perhaps you haven’t seen Santa lately. But it just may be that you are seeing things that aren’t quite true. Listen to that still, soft inner voice and explore the truth. The truth will set you free.
Tune-up Tip – Food and Festivity: How to celebrate without packing on the pounds
We associate celebrations with food, and the period between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day is no different. A lot of it is food we don’t eat every day. And for good reason. Less nutrition and more calories.
Not only the type of food, but also the way it is served. People standing around and grazing, as each piece is a tiny bite
Eight strategies that will enable you to celebrate and enjoy food without packing on pounds.
- Drink plenty of water
- Keep moving.
- If the party food will consist mostly of appetizers, eat something substantial before you go.
- When you see the food table, choose in advance what you will eat.
- Don’t hang around the food table.
- Avoid high-calorie drinks.
- If you overeat at a party, just start back on your regular nutrition plan the next day, or the next meal.
- Focus on the people you are with and enjoy their company
Random Riffs- Most annoying holiday songs
I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus – any version. No links included
Worst Renditions of a Great Song
Hilarious Parody of a Christmas Song
New Version of an Old Classic
Feature Segment – I’m Not Having a Hallmark Christmas
Ever see those Hallmark Christmas specials? Heart-warming with sentimental music, and all wrapped up in a bow by the end of the show. In between they have the commercials with happy families having fun and making special memories. It all looks so perfect.
Does your Christmas look like a Hallmark Special? Mine doesn’t.
I do have great memories of times with my family over the years.
- Trips to Newport
- Crazy aunts
- Favorite decorations – blown glass icicles, dishes
- Food – roast turkey, roast beef with Yorkshire pudding, macaroni and cheese, mulled cider
- Visits with friends and watching children be born and grow up.
Some not-so Hallmark Christmases:
- Working overtime during the holidays on mergers and data conversions.
- Trying to create that Hallmark Christmas and falling short.
Have you experienced something during the Christmas season that has changed the way you feel about Christmas? Is your Christmas a mixed bag of joy and sadness, love and loneliness? Peel below the surface, and almost anyone middle-aged or older will share a story that sounds similar.
Let’s go back to the first Christmas and see how Hallmark-like it was.
Mary and Joseph – the circumstances were less than ideal. Unmarried and pregnant; delivering the baby in a barn. Yet, in the midst of those circumstances, we see their character. They are
- Faithful – To their calling.
- Joyous – They appreciate what they have, no matter how little it is.
- Generous –They share the moment with the shepherds and wise men.
- Servants – They focus on what’s most important – the safe delivery, care, and feeding of their child.
Let’s forget about the perfect Christmas. Instead let’s celebrate a real Christmas: whether it be mixed up, chaotic, bittersweet, hectic, or lonely. The best way to celebrate is to be a living, breathing Christmas gift to others through faithfulness, joy, generosity, and service.
Question: Have you experienced a less-than-perfect Christmas? How did you celebrate and what did you learn from the experience? Share by clicking here.
I will post a special Christmas Gift on Tuesday, December 23, 2014. It will be found on the Home page, and at kathleenannthompson.com/christmas.
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